There are an infinite number of reasons Janet, my stepmom
of 25 years, is deserving of the Legacy of Love award. Her
role of caregiver to my dad, Ron Pfeffer, began weeks before
the official diagnosis and hasn’t wavered since. The
ultimate do-er, Janet jumped to action immediately and
made sure Dad was going to be treated at Mayo Clinic,
knowing he needed the best. We’re here today, with Dad by
our sides, because of Janet. A large part of caregiving is
managing logistics, which can take hours a day. Just as
critical as getting to and from appointments, setting up pill
boxes, and dealing with insurance companies, is providing a
safe and nurturing environment for healing, of which Janet
is a master. Balancing our favorite extroverts need for
social interactions with time for rest, Janet thoughtfully
ensures Dad gets time with his dear friends and family,
while also protecting his time for rest and relaxation.
There’s no doubt that Janet’s number one focus right now
is Dad, and so I’m nominating Janet for this award to
remind her that we see her doing the world’s hardest work,
selflessly and graciously.