This is my Mom Rose. My mom and step dad were married for 22 years. In
February 2019 her husband Wayne was diagnosed with a very large brain tumor
and what followed was a incredibly hard 2 1/2 years filled multiple brain
surgeries, hospital stays, nights of sleeping on the hard floor and in
uncomfortable chairs in the waiting rooms, chemo and radiation treatments.
February 2021 we were told the tumor was growing back rapidly and had went
over into a grade 3 meningioma which meant terminal brain cancer.
My Mom is disabled due to her back and she has major problems with her
shoulders but that never stopped my Mom from doing what needed to be done for
Wayne. She drove him 60 miles just one way to doctors appointments, for
chemo/ radiation treatments and surgeries and when he was admitted in the
hospital she drove up to sit by his bedside and to be there when all his
doctors came in. And she did all of that in a car that had almost 200,000 (if
not over 200,000) miles and no AC or heat for the really hot/cold days. There
were days she didn’t even know if her car was gonna make it that round trip
of 120 miles but she drove it anyway.
As Wayne’s cancer progressed she never hesitated to step up and be his 24
hour 7 days a week caregiver. She did research on what to expect and asked
the hospice nurses tons of questions. She changed his clothes/pull ups and
bedding when needed no matter how much her back and shoulders might have been
hurting. There were days where she was up all night with him when he couldn’t
sleep. She did her best to reassure him when he was scared and confused about
what was happening to him. She fed him when he got to where he couldn’t feed
himself, helped shave his face and cut his hair to help him feel better about
himself and made sure he got all his meds. She put her husband, his needs and
being his care giver before herself even on the days when she was exhausted
running on no sleep and was hurting herself.
She was selfless and always had to be reminded to take care of herself too so
she could take care of her husband. She is a prime example of what it means
to stick the marriage vows of for better, for worse, through sickness and in
health till death do us part.
I nominate my Mom Rose for the Legacy Of Love!